|M with Evie. She was about 3 hours old. Oh, if I only knew then what I know now!!|
- Stay away from all books written by Dr. Sears, Harvey Karp and Elizabeth Pantley. Actually, don't read anything at all. Do what feels right, because if it feels right, then it probably is. (Caveats can be made for people who are truly clueless, which I totally was before Evie was born...but don't take the things you read too seriously, everything must be adjusted to work for you, your baby, and your situation.)
- Don't worry that the baby is sleeping too much during the first few weeks. (Yup, I was actually concerned about this!) Enjoy the quiet because it's not going to last for very long.
- Stay calm during baby meltdowns. Really, you're just making it worse by getting worked up too. The baby will be fine. Hold her tight and let her know you care, but don't flip out if she doesn't stop crying immediately.
- Take other people's advice with a grain of salt (kind of like the reading thing). Even if it's someone that you completely trust and respect, what worked for them may not be the best thing for you.
- Lastly, be cool, calm, relaxed and confident. Taking care of a baby is hard work, and you're doing just fine. :) (Wow, that one made tear up a little...maybe I need to follow my own advice right now.)
This was written as part of the Toddle Along Tuesday blog hop. This week's topic is advice for Mommies to be. Click the button to link up at Growing up Geeky!!